[Day 24] "Stay" - Keep calm through targeted impulse control
Basic obedience: Day 24 of 56
This video and training is part of the Grunge Obedience Concept, a structured programme to promote obedience and the bond between humans and dogs. The concept is carefully didactic and methodical to ensure that each exercise builds on the previous one for maximum effectiveness. It is crucial that you carry out the training in the intended order to achieve the best possible results for your dog.
The "stay" signal is one of the most useful exercises you can teach your dog to ensure greater calm and control in everyday life. Especially with visitors or when the postman comes, a good "stay" helps your dog to set clear boundaries and observe the situation calmly without rushing into the middle of the action.
However, the "stay" is not only practical for your home, but also outside - if you want to keep your dog in a certain position while you move away briefly. Impulse control and frustration tolerance play a major role here, as the dog has to learn not to follow you directly, but to stay in one position until it receives the release signal.
Goal: The dog stays where you have placed it despite external stimuli until a release is given.
Equipment: Dog Bed, treats, Collar, Harness, Leash, clicker
Location: Low-stimulus environment, later different locations
Duration: approx. 5 times per exercise, followed by a break
"Stay" - A signal for more calm and control in everyday life
The "Stay" is a more challenging exercise than other signals as it goes against the dog's natural behaviour to follow you. Dogs are conditioned to follow their human's movements, so the "stay" requires a high degree of impulse control and self-control. Your dog must learn not to immediately focus on your movements, but instead to stay in the position you have given him.
Why is the "stay" so important?
A well-trained "stay" enables your dog to react calmly, even when he is in an exciting situation. Whether it's a visit from the parcel service, a trip to the vet or waiting on the street - the "stay" gives your dog a clear structure and helps him to control his reactions better.
By training your dog to "stay", you will improve his frustration tolerance. Because as you move away from him, he has to learn to accept this challenge without getting nervous or running after you. This self-control has a positive effect on many other areas of your dog's behaviour and ensures more calm in everyday life.
Everyday situations in which the "Stay" is helpful:
- Visitors at the door: Instead of your dog rushing frantically towards the visitor, you can give him a clear position from which he can observe the situation by saying "Stay".
- Take-away delivery: Your dog remains calmly in position while you receive the delivery.
- Visits to the vet: If your dog has to stay still during the examination, a reliable "stay" is a great help.
- Waiting at road crossings: Your dog can stay safely in one position while you check the surroundings.
- Training for shows: The "Stay" is also essential in the sporting arena to give your dog clear instructions.
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Summary
The "Stay" signal is a valuable exercise that will make your dog calmer and more controlled in everyday life. By combining frustration tolerance and impulse control, your dog will learn to remain calm even in exciting moments. Stay" is particularly helpful in situations where your dog needs clear instructions in order not to react immediately.
With patience and regular training, you can integrate "stay" into your everyday life and benefit from its many advantages. Your dog will learn to control his impulses better and will be able to stay calmly in stressful situations.
Good luck with your practice!
This video and training is part of the Grunge Obedience Concept, a structured programme to promote obedience and the bond between humans and dogs. The concept is carefully didactic and methodical to ensure that each exercise builds on the previous one for maximum effectiveness. It is crucial that you carry out the training in the intended order to achieve the best possible results for your dog.
The authors: Paulina & Lui
Paulina and Lui are the heart and soul behind Vitomalia [Dogstraining & Store]. Her journey in dog training began with the adoption of her first list dog, Vito. This experience sparked her deep interest in teaching other dog owners about dog behaviour and training. Initially this was just a hobby, but with the adoption of the American Pitbull Amalia, who had been relinquished several times due to severe behavioural problems, her passion developed into a true vocation. Amalia's particular behavioural challenges intensified her interest in dog training and behavioural therapy. This turning point led Paulina and Lui to leave their original career paths, undergo intensive further training and dedicate themselves entirely to the subject of dog training. Their work with human-dog teams also revealed a gap in the dog market: there was a lack of safe, high-quality dog accessories specifically for medium-sized and large breeds.
From this realisation, Vitomalia [Dogstraining & Store] was born, a combination of their commitment to professional dog training and the need for quality dog accessories. Paulina and Lui bring their personal experience, extensive knowledge and passion for dogs to every product to help human-dog teams live together.